Agreed "Motherhood" indeed is a greatest moment in every woman's life...!!!
Okay, O' People of the world over.... now are you prepared to consider that that 'Motherhood" is equally a greatest moment in case even if that mother happens to be yet an unmarried woman...???
ARE YOU GROWN UP ENOUGH TO THINK THIS MATTER OVER IN DEPTH WITHIN YOURSELF INDEPENDENTLY...???
There are many women World over, who are unmarried, even though they are around 40 years. It is not their fault; because, the present day demands lot of struggle and preparation for an educated woman to establish herself in the World successfully. At the time she has established herself, she will be running out of time to fulfill her basic instinct that of her "motherhood". What woman will undergo at the time when she is crossing her age of possible motherhood, no man can ever understand it. In her professional everyday life in-between knowingly or unknowingly she may come across an interesting man, may be an unmarried or a married man; whomsoever she may be attracted to.
With whom she may even have an intimate emotional or just a sexual relationship, whatsoever… what is wrong in it? It is quite natural and equally reasonable by any angle in any single woman’s life.
"Our Mother Earth is one, where as seeds are many" When we consider, women as a wonderful embodiment of Mother Earth; we must also not forget that every woman regardless weather she is married or unmarried, by birth has a basic instinct that of "Motherhood" biologically embedded within her DNA.
This has been the basic building block of our "Mother Nature" for the repopulation and regeneration of the life forms on our planet earth. Therefore "Motherhood” should be treated as one of the fundamental birthrights of every women World over, either she may be married or unmarried that is quite an unimportant. In addition, each and every women, should be given 'right to choose the seed of a man', of whose child she intendeds to be a mother. Her opinion should be treated with respect and dignity as last as well as final.
This is what has happened in the times Lord Krishna of "Mahabharata" as well.
Kunthi, ‘mother of five-pandavas’ earlier to her marriage to an impotent king Pandu; She too had got herself pregnant. She too had to face the problem of ‘how to’ disclose the name of the father of her forthcoming illegitimate child "Karna" to the World..? Naturally she was unable to face the stupid World. Therefore She was forced by the heartless fate to sacrifice her ‘motherly-heart’ of her motherhood thereby unwillingly she had to detach herself with her newborn child "Karna" by letting him to go on floating indefinitely in the river 'Ganga' who later became one of the most powerful kings of Mahabharata times.
Even after her marriage to the impotent king "Pandu" She has to copulate with five more different "men" in order to fulfill her Motherhood instincts. The result was Five Pandavas, Dharma, Bhima, Arjuna, Nakula, and Sahadeva, born to five different men, however, to a single mother Kunthi. In turn those five Pandavas too had to marry a sister of Lord Krishna and a most beautiful single women "Droupadi".
Droupadi, too in turn had five extraordinary sons from each one of the five Pandavas. To recognize the fathers of her sons, what that wise woman did was she copulated with only one Pandava until she gave birth to his child. Which later became popular as 'Pativrata Dharma'; ‘Law of Motherhood’ or Pativrata Dharma means nothing but sleeping with one and only one male partner of her choice until she gives birth to his child. Regardless weather she marry him or not or lives with that man all her life. Indeed it is strictly her private as well as her personal independent choice indeed. After giving birth to her first child from ‘First Pandava Dharma’; she changed to next ‘Scond Pandava: Bhima’, and then to the next and to the next so on and so forth. In this way she was allowed by then 'law maker' the Lord Krishna himself to fulfill her humanly basic instincts that of the ‘Motherhood’ thereby mothering five sons regardless to the fact that even if she had legally married an impotent King Pandu.
The intelligence of such an uncommon as well as unusual adjustment in the life of a ‘married woman’ is to change an ill-fate of a woman who already was married to a impotent man and use that ill-fate as an opportunity to have five sons from five different men of different DNA configurations that of the World's best men of quality.
As "Quality matters most however not the quantity". On other hand as "Gandhari wife of Drutharashtra, had 100 mediocre sons from one blind potent king.
Even Lord Krishna also had friendly relationships with as many as 16,000, women who loved him intimately within the deepest core of their hearts. Likewise even our Lord Jesus too is loved by millions and millions of devoted married women as well as unmarried Nuns around the World today. Indeed, both of the Lords of all lords in their own way are quite popular when it comes to winning the hearts of women World over timelessly.
Today naturally World over many young women find their 'soul mates' in the Lord Krishna as well as the Lord Jesus accordingly... This no one objects, even if they are no more in their Physical biological bodies... It does not matter to a women's heart. She could give her heart and soul to any man of her choice. This means that her independent personal choice should be treated as good as her 'last and final' decision none has any right to ask her regarding her personal selection simply because of the simple fact that she is a woman as well as she is an integral human part of the Mother Nature as any woman is or as any man is; either spiritual or sexual partner it is their choice and it is their life none has any right to question their personal selection. This kind of ‘free lifestyle’ also fits finely into the popular biological-law that of the Natural Selections which already exists out there in our Mother Nature..!!
Now it is high time that such free and frank sexual relationships should be treated legally as a rightful as well as respectable relationship World over. Women World over should be given their Natural birthright to become mother regardless to the fact that she may either be a married woman or an unmarried woman..!!
In case if any woman who wishes to be or become a mother of one or more children, then nothing should come in between that women and her motherhood. Proper amendments should be made World over. Thereby giving every woman what rightfully and naturally belongs to her. This should be treated as one of the women’s birth rights World over.
While admitting a child to educational institutes the name of a Mother should be taken as well as must be treated as a true and legal identification a child, however not the name of a father, biologically it may or may not be true. Every child should be identified by the name of his Mother, but not by the name of his father. Then only womankind literally would be identified as 'liberated' in the real sense of the word. Until then womankind remain just as a shadow in the Man's World without ever having a true womanly identity.
There should even be banks of "seeds" of the World over ‘Successful Men’ made available to each and every woman to choose the seed of her choice for her Motherhood; even artificial insemination should be made birthright of every woman, if she chose to be mother while remaining unmarried. Every pregnant woman regardless to her social and economical status married or unmarried should be treated with great care, love, respect and dignity all over the World. Motherhood should become one of the dignified status symbol of every woman of World over.
All women who have become mothers even though they still live as unmarried women must and should also be supported to live their life as normally and as respectfully as women who become mothers after their marriages.
